Author: Lian

Who am I? From a young age, we are encouraged to think on a basic level about “who we are.” We describe ourselves and others with simple, general adjectives such as smart, funny, kind and talented. These general terms are exactly what the definition is – general. We can give these simple, generic terms to…

One of my big goals for 2021, is to live in the moment and to transform myself into a better version of myself. Each month, I want to focus on 10 things, which will all hopefully build up to accomplishing my main goal. Writing Ever since I’ve started my blog, I’ve been pouring my heart…

To the boy who broke my heart, I would never be able to tell you this in real life, let alone over text. So here’s me, ranting through words you’ll never read. Do you want to know the real reason why I don’t want to get Instagram? Because I don’t want to get addicted to…

Here are some of my addictions – Whoops, I mean some of my favourite apps! Whatsapp – I can’t explain how addicted I am to Whatsapp. I mean, it makes sense though, as I don’t have any other “social media” apps. In other words, I’m glued to Whatsapp. It’s a great app for communicating with…

I would classify myself as an ambivert – someone’s who’s introverted and shy around people who I don’t know very well, and extroverted around my friends and family. I’m definitely not the most confident, smart, or humorous person, and I find it hard to express myself and open up to people sometimes. Here are some…

One day, someone will walk into your life and get it right where everyone else got it wrong. One day you won’t have to wait for a call or a text back. One day you won’t be the only one giving your all. One day you’ll finally meet someone who wants to help you grow…

We all go through hardships. No matter how troubling they may seem, it’s just another part of life. We all believe that these hardships are ‘life-changing moments,’ a problem that is usually overthought and exaggerated. Failing a test, parents yelling at you, getting rejected by your crush – they all seem like a life-changing moment….

As I grow older, I find myself being pressured more and more by social media. Many of my friends are/have tried to convince me to get social media, but they haven’t done a very good job so far. Social media is an amazing way to connect with other people, express yourself in different ways, and…

In the mirror, we find a reflection of our appearance, but in the heart, we find a reflection of our soul. Late nights or early mornings – we must prioritise time to spend on reflecting. Reflection is a way we grow stronger, how we are able to learn from our mistakes and failures, and make…